For many immigrant families, money carries duty: repay sacrifice, support parents, prove the move was worth it. Those loyalties can be profound—and exhausting when they collide with a partner, children, or personal limits.
Autonomy does not require rejecting family. It requires clarifying what belonging costs, what can be given freely, and what creates quiet resentment.
Therapy and coaching can hold both truths: love for family, and a sustainable financial and emotional life of your own.